Meet Belle Femme

Welcome to Finding My Virginity, formerly known as Confessions of a Virgin. My nom de plume is Belle Vierge Femme (beautiful virgin wife en fran├žais), but you can call me Belle.

In a nutshell, I'm a feminist, Christian, southern, francophile, bilingual, bisexual, bibliophile, nerdy, petite, libertarian, big-boobed, former virgin sorority alumna in love with her husband, who goes by Beau Vierge Mari.

I write about virginity and sex; religion and feminism; books and boobs. My blog isn't just about not having coitus before marriage. It's a melange of humor and anger, personal reflection and societal criticism, all written with passion and the desire to influence others with my experiences. 

Some folks over at twitter have a problem with anonymous accounts. But if you were blogging about the status of your premarital virginity, and all your past hook ups (kissing ones, that is), and your crazy drunken shenanigans, and your controversial thoughts on religion, and the physical intimacy you enjoy with your husband, would you tell the whole world your identity?

Yeah, I didn't think so.

That, and my family doesn't know I'm bisexual, nor do most of my friends.

I can't promise to update daily, or post pretty pictures all the time. I doubt I'll ever host a giveaway, and I'm probably not going to be the most fashionable writer.

But I promise always to be genuine, authentic, honest, ME.

Because what's the point of being anonymous... 
if I can't be myself? 

I'm a total princess. I just don't need rescuing.

Disclosure Policy: Belle Femme is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to This website does not share any of the personal information you provide when leaving comments or emailing Belle. Some user information is collected via Google Analytics, but this information is not connected to any personal information nor is it shared with outside parties.

Photo Credits: Unless otherwise noted,* all pictures are either of me or by me. 
Fabulous Blog Design by Natalie, over at 2317 Studio.
*Gargoyle on Notre Dame, aka the main photo on my blog, was taken by my best friend Mark.**
**Not his real name. Duh.


  1. I'm new to your blog, and I'm totally going to follow it. Great idea - I look forward to reading more! Come check my blog out if you get a chance. :-)

    1. Thank you! I love new followers. :) Your 1950s housewife idea is definitely different. It reminds me of Rachel Held Evans' book "A Year of Biblical Womanhood."

  2. Just found your blog and totally fell in love with it! Love the idea! :)

  3. And that's the way to do it! Love the boots, BTW.

    1. Thank you! They're sadly not waterproof or super-warm, but they're PERFECT for the spring/autumn. Now that I live somewhere that's cold from September to May...

  4. Brava! Stopping over from the Fresh Face Friday hop (geez that's a long name). Good for you for keeping the anonymity. I really wish I had an anonymous blog or twitter account sometimes, the freedom to say what you really want must feel amazing!

    1. Sorry for the late reply! Being anonymous limits my audience, but I love the freedom to be completely honest. I definitely talk about stuff that I can't tell my family or some of my friends.


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