tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post2141110933877983893..comments2024-02-06T10:29:58.974-05:00Comments on Finding My Virginity: Virgin Myths: Popping Her Cherry?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711743439868985297noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-82575798817807790332014-08-29T13:02:46.128-04:002014-08-29T13:02:46.128-04:00This is definitely one of the pernicious myths - p...This is definitely one of the pernicious myths - particularly if the guy is expecting the girl to bleed to prove her "purity." <br /><br />While first time intercourse (particularly if it is a first time for both) isn't necessarily mind-blowingly good - a sense of humor helps - there is no reason it shouldn't be pleasant for both. A guy who doesn't aim for this isn't a good lover. <br /><br />I took the time in preparation for our first time to study up a bit, and thus neither of us went into it with fear. There was no pain - just a whole lot of fun. <br /><br />I fully intend to teach my kids - male and female - about this subject, and encourage them to take the time to be good lovers. After all, he (or she) who makes sex pleasant for the other partner *gets more sex.* Right?Diary of an Autodidacthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11849157548643091986noreply@blogger.com