tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post1621812605234877006..comments2024-02-06T10:29:58.974-05:00Comments on Finding My Virginity: When Words Aren't EnoughAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09711743439868985297noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-35776373253440858852015-06-22T20:06:41.537-04:002015-06-22T20:06:41.537-04:00I've kinda been putting off commenting on your...I've kinda been putting off commenting on your post because I haven't been quite ready to go back to the weeks before my moms death, but so much of it resonates with me.<br /><br />I last saw my mom the day before Halloween in the hospital but had no idea how sick age really was. The last words I told her were that I loved her and that I'd see her when I was home for thanksgiving, but instead she died the Saturday before thanksgiving.<br /><br />My mom died 10 months before our wedding and I hated planning it without her and that she wasn't there for it. When I was pregnant I was so scared that I couldn't be a mom without her and while that hasn't been the case there's things I really wish I could talk to her about.<br /><br />My dad too lost a parent, her fAther, in his 20s and growing up I never thought it was a big deal because he was already a grown up.<br /><br />Clearly this comment has been a bit rambly but if you need anything or want to talk, in here.Shoshanahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15707241263291051104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-34656125320416364232015-06-14T13:12:51.837-04:002015-06-14T13:12:51.837-04:00Praying for you and your mum. Get that book on pap...Praying for you and your mum. Get that book on paper - that will be the piece of her you have forever. HugsKay R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17616798594879683219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-28017594227593594152015-06-11T14:44:15.347-04:002015-06-11T14:44:15.347-04:00I am so, so sorry you're having to go through ...I am so, so sorry you're having to go through this right now, and that you won't be there for longer than you'd like. My prayers are absolutely with your famiyJessica Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17283561653744769352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-25499216026581600032015-06-10T23:44:52.048-04:002015-06-10T23:44:52.048-04:00Sending you love and light. So sorry to read this ...Sending you love and light. So sorry to read this post, but how wonderful it is that your family can lean on each other during this. Embrace and love on each other constantly.Lindsay @ Trial By Sapphirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602534663385234911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-67005480872771883412015-06-10T04:36:25.910-04:002015-06-10T04:36:25.910-04:00I can't even imagine how hard it is being in t...I can't even imagine how hard it is being in this situation, and I'm sending lots of e-hugs and comforting thoughts your way. I hope you're surrounded by a good support network and that whatever happens you'll have some peace.Lauren {Adventures in Flip Flops}https://www.blogger.com/profile/03154585267593293455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-27602478028425437242015-06-09T19:49:39.108-04:002015-06-09T19:49:39.108-04:00Praying for you and your family and friends. I can...Praying for you and your family and friends. I can only imagine what you're going through, but your pain was evident in your words. Hugs!Gennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15591289076577774156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-79230331877749466672015-06-09T12:05:08.067-04:002015-06-09T12:05:08.067-04:00My heart is breaking for you! My thoughts and pray...My heart is breaking for you! My thoughts and prayers are will you all! Bug hugs! Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14647707557228625706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-68017665195638052972015-06-09T11:57:47.060-04:002015-06-09T11:57:47.060-04:00This is so incredibly sad:-(
And you're righ...This is so incredibly sad:-( <br /><br />And you're right that you can never really totally appreciate the hurt when someone else's parents die, but it's not because you are callous, it's because no one can really appreciate another person like a truly loved child appreciates her parents. Your mother is special to you in a way that she is special to nobody else, so even though some of us have lost our parents, there just isn't quite anyone who can totally, 100% get it. That specialness makes it painful.<br /><br />I never had a good relationship with my mother, and I can't say that I even really "miss" her...but there are still things I wish I could say to her or ask her. It's a blessing to know how wonderful your mother is, to be able to appreciate her and tell her exactly how you feel about her. It's not going to make the next couple of months any easier, but you will always be glad to have known her as long as you did.<br /><br />Just tell her you love her as much as you can:)Accidentally Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01869100744451468800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4487897975553552090.post-3524434662694043032015-06-09T03:31:23.893-04:002015-06-09T03:31:23.893-04:00hugshugsAngela Tolsmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03722519978325022244noreply@blogger.com